Sex resolutions you must stick to!

Take charge of your sex life in the New Year, with these fun-filled and exciting ‘sexolutions’ and make your way to a satisfying and pleasurable bedroom life all through the year!

Resolution # 1: Vow to devote ‘more time’ to the act.
No denying that ‘quickies’ are great fun, but when the target is a year full of gratifying sex, nothing works better that investing quality time in the act. “Being one of the fundamental aspects of a man-woman relationship, sex deserves patience and time. But time-pressed lifestyles and busy schedules often leaves couples exhausted by the end of the day leading to a lull in their bedroom. So, from planning private vacations and early-morning sex sessions to extending foreplay in the bed, anything and everything that keeps the two of you connected for a longer time helps pep up your sexual experience,” suggests Sandhya Mulchandani, author of Indian Erotica.

Resolution # 2: Promise to ‘experiment’
If you think experimentation is only the younger lot’s cup of tea, remember that it’s the older couples who benefit the most out from all the trials and tests. “Every couple has its own set of pleasure activities that they have been practicing since day one. But it’s always good to explore and experiment to know what else charges up your pleasure buttons and hits them better,” suggests Sandhya. Try and know what turns your man on or what arouses your wife. Touch and feel each other’s bodies and don’t shy away from trying new techniques and positions this year. Think what you want your partner to do between the sheets and communicate your secret desires and innate fantasies the next time you are indulging in some steamy action. You never know you might just discover an all new moan zoan in your partner’s body!

Resolution # 3: Pledge to revisit your sensual side
When was the last time you went out shopping for enticing night wear and sassy lingerie the way you did in the initial days of your courtship? When was the last time you turned your bedroom into a love-den to woo your partner? We are sure it’s been long, with due courtesy to our busy and overtly practical schedules. Why not revisit your sensual self once again in 2009? “Feeling beautiful and getting in touch with your sensuality forms an important part of lovemaking, especially for women. If you are feeling sexy and beautiful, chances of being interested and active in sex are a lot higher than otherwise,” explains Alka Pandey, author of Kama Sutra for Women. So, check out the lingerie stores and dig out some sensuous pieces. Also, try and pick some other passion props like perfumed body oils, scented candles, satin sheets, silk scarves etc. and put them to the best of use.